I've gotten some feedback regarding using babysitters other than family. My parents live close by, and The Hubby & I normally let them keep Lil Man when we want a night out to ourselves.
So...... The Hubby and I discussed getting a local teen to start doing some sitting for us. We wanted someone that is a freshman or sophomore in high school that we can stick with for several years. We have someone in mind that we're probably going to use.
Yesterday, The Hubby played in a law enforcement softball tournament at a local park. I invited BS (babysitter) to tag along with Lil Man and me. I wanted to get to know her personally and see how she interacted with Lil Man; and he with her. It went very well!!! I feel so much more comfortable with the idea than I did before.
Our next step (which a fellow blogger suggested) is to have BS over while I'm home. I think I'll let her come over while I've got some things to do and let her watch Lil Man. This way she can get comfortable in our home and learn where everything is. I'll be here to help her if she has any questions.
I truly want her to feel comfortable and at home at our place. I want her to feel like a part of us...... not someone just stopping by to keep my child.
Bottom line: We're moving forward with the whole babysitting deal.
I'll keep you updated, and if you think of some other words of advice......leave them! :) They will be much appreciated. Thanks!
7 years ago
4 comments:
YEA! Great for you & Hubby. One word of advice: don't be afraid to spell out the details, like: change the baby's diaper every 2-3 hours, or sooner if necessary. Don't talk on the phone while watching the baby unless it's an emergency. Don't text. Try to play with the kids. Know where the kids are at all times. Keep the front door locked. Don't answer the door, just talk through it and tell them to come back later. Every babysitter is different but we've had our share of sitters who we THOUGHT were smart and responsible but turned out to be... not so much.
I am glad it is going well for you. It is hard, isn't it? I think having her over a couple of times when you are home is a good idea. Let us know how it works out.
Such a big step!! We haven't yet crossed the bridge of using someone other than family, so I like reading what you are doing to work in to that transition. It will help me out later.
GOOD LUCK!!!
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