Flying.....and not in a good way.

I'm good at flying........

"Flying off the handle" that is.

I will be the first to admit to a couple of character flaws. I have a temper and will fly off the handle at the drop of the hat. Actually, I've gotten a lot better since having a child. And to go along with it, I will hold onto the "mad" for a while. I'm not very good at just letting go and moving on...... again, gotten better but still by no means close to being good.

What sets me off quicker than anything?

Lying. Don't lie to me. 1. Omission is lying. 2. A small "white" lie is lying. 3. And straight out lying when asked a direct question is lying.

Pisses me the hell off. (Sorry FIL and MIL. I'm doing my best to watch my language but there may be a few slips.)

I would rather a person be honest and just get it out and over with than flippin lie only to be caught later in the lie. Because if you stop and think, how often do people get away with lying? It's eventually found out. And if you're like me, the longer it goes the madder I get.

Ok....third character flaw. Stubbornness. Put all three together and what you get isn't the best of equations.

And to make matters even worse....... since I'm 6 months pregnant I can't "work it out" like I used to do. When I'm not pregnant, I'll go to the basement to the exercise room and work up a serious sweat. Can't beat feeling a little pain (and at time pretend you're giving a little pain) to get the mad out. So I get even more mad because there's essentially not a damn thing I can do about it.

It being hurt feelings on top of just being let down and disappointed. And for me, hurt feelings slides into mad. Plain ole mad....... or to put it in even simpler. Pissed off!

Bottom line...... be a man/woman and face it. Don't be a coward and lie. If you're going to make a choice that put you in a position to lie, I'd suggest you not make that choice to begin with. What do you think? Pretty damn smart huh?!

I'm just saying and thankyousoverymuch.