When I ask you to do one simple thing in the morning (change our child's diaper) because I'm running late, please just do it! And when you come in late (7:00pm) and there's a mess on the kitchen floor, don't ask about it. Just ignore it!
Love you!
Your wife
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So let me explain:
Yesterday late evening, Hubby walks in the door (7:00ish). Lil Man and I had already eaten dinner. I had forewarned said husband that we were only waiting until 6:30 then we were eating with or without him. I cooked Chicken Parmesan by the way!....anywhoo.....there were plastic storage containers ALL over the kitchen floor (I admit it looked like a tornado had hit). Lil Man had kept himself entertained by pulling them out of the drawers and stepping on them. I frankly did NOT care....he was playing close by, out of my way and letting me get dinner cooked. This was the first thing said Hubby commented on; just about sent me through the roof. I smiled and said I would clean it up later. I honestly think it's still there this morning. Do I care??? Not so much!
THEN.......this morning.
Our mornings usually consist of this: I get up and get dressed; Hubby is still in the bed; I get our child up, diaper changed and dressed; Hubby is still in the bed; I take child to my mom's (where thankfully SHE does breakfast) and head to work; Hubby is still in bed; Hubby gets up and takes dog out for a walk and then heads into work.
I honestly don't mind that the man doesn't do a whole lot in the mornings. I'm okay with that UNTIL the one morning I randomly ask for a small favor........I was running late b/c my child got up early. Lil Man had been playing in the bathroom with me as I got ready. I asked Hubby to go change his diaper right quick while I was finishing up. Hubby calls Lil Man several times with no response (while still lying in the bed)....this is where I get super annoyed, take care of it myself and head out the door.
"I was getting ready to do it. I'm not sure why you're annoyed," responds Hubby.
When I wake you up during the night to take care of our child, just think about these incidents my darling love. No complaints from the peanut gallery allowed! [smirk]
Does anyone feel my pain??? Or am I the pain??? {grin} If you think I'm the pain, no need to comment because this was my rant post and I'm always right thankyousomuch!!! LOL
7 years ago
